Internet Safety

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What to do if you receive unwanted sexts from someone you know, dont know,  sexual harassment ?

Can You Remove Nudes from the Internet?

Sexting/sending nudes is increasingly common among young people, and that has led to an increasing number of people looking for ways to take back those images, because sometimes people we trust with our images break that trust and the image is shared without permission. Sometimes the image was created or captured without consent. No matter why it’s out there, there are steps you can take to get it removed and limit its spread.

Each platform has a different protocol for requesting an image’s removal from the site, but generally, the steps look like this:

1.      Log into the app/site
2.      Find the profile or image or video you want to report
3.      Click on the ••• /settings/menu options for the image
4.      Select “report content” or similar option
5.      When prompted for a reason for reporting, select “sexual content” or similar option
6.      Complete any additional prompts
7.      Submit the report

Good Quality men don’t ask for nudes.

Ask yourself

What am I getting out of sending nudes in the first place?
Did it cheapen the experience.
You’ll find out very quickly who is worth your time.
Nudes don’t always equal sexy.
Weeding out the weirdos become so much easier.

Many women felt pressure to send nudes.
Have you been conflicted by the mere thought of sending a pic.
Wondering if guys will only like them if you  send them pictures.
You can always say “Can you please not send me any more nudes? I want to know you better”

3 Reasons to Stop Sending Nudes

01. I want something real.

eI’m looking for something real. Of course sh is a living, breathing, human being—that’s not what I mean by real. There’s something about a picture of someone that seems more intimate, more connective, than just thinking about them. Just ask the soldiers who have gone off to war with a photo of their beloved.

There’s something false about sharing nude photos specifically. Seeing someone’s nakedness encourages intimacy when it is shared. But of course, if you’re not physically together, you’re not really building mutual intimacy. Nakedness without togetherness is a bit of a cheap imitation of physical intimacy if you ask me. A tempting one, to be sure, but one my clear-headed self would rather pass on.

02. I want to love her.

I want to love somebody and I want to be loved in return—not just the physical stuff. Like it or not, nude photos do a good job of stirring up the physical stuff, but love doesn’t necessarily follow. In fact, I would argue that it makes real love even harder to develop. Lust is a different sort of verb: it seeks to gain and then to use. There is actually pretty good scientific evidence out there to suggest that, for men, when we lust over an image of someone it’s consequently harder to love them—because the image is detached from the person. Lust without love leads to objectification. That is, I no longer see someone as a person, but rather as an object for my own gratification. That’s not love and it’s not how I wish to treat a person. Even many married men avoid looking at naked pics of their wives for this reason.

03. I want her to feel valued.

The most important reason is to know that she was more to me than just a hot body. I do worry if it was something that I was doing to give her that impression or if it was something she picked up from somewhere else. After all, she had sent me a naked image of herself before, and in a bout of weakness I hadn’t said anything to deter her.

Men should think twice about not only how much attention to give a woman but also the quality of it. Why? Because if men value her—all of her, and not just her body. Women should expect that from men.

“Leave your face out off it, any tattoos or body markings. The end off the day it’s just a naked body, we all have one with dangly bits so who cares just be smart about it.”  –Danni Flanigen, Dance teacher

The Anthony Weiner rule

Then-Congressman Weiner made a very big mistake when he sent a sexually explicit photo to a supporter in Washington state in 2011. There was nothing in the photo to suggest it belonged to Weiner. But because he sent it from his Twitter account, there was little ambiguity on that point.

Picture sent to aliens via pioneer spacecraft into deep space.

What should I do if I receive unwanted sexts?

 

Universe is around you, within you

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